Monday, September 15, 2014

Home Buying Tips

 




 Several years ago, I had a job as a Realtor.  It's not the easiest job to have, let me tell you!  You are on call 365 days a year/ 24 hours a day.  I know many people think they make a lot of money.  Some do, many don't make very much.  There were a lot of phone calls, showings, open houses, etc. that you don't really get paid to do.  Realtor's don't get paid until closing day.  That being said, I learned a lot!

  I do have some tips to share with you.  I have nothing to gain financially by sharing this.  These are things I would tell my clients that were house hunting here in Louisiana.  Your state may be different, so check with a local Realtor.

1- When getting pre-approved, I personally would only include the highest income in the family.  Why?  Think of the future.  One of you could lose your job, you could have a baby and maybe mom wants to stay home.  If you based your income on both of you and bought a home at that price range, it would cause some financial hardship!
 Yes, I know that would mean a smaller, less expensive home, but very few people really need a huge home.  Unless you have MANY children or a multi - generational household!

2-Get estimates on house insurance, and property taxes on the house that you are interested in.  Insurance goes up pretty often, and property taxes are reassessed every four years.  That means you pay more every month!  If you are maxed out on your mortgage payments because you bought the high end of what the bank said you could, you may be in trouble...

3-Really think about your lifestyle...
- Do you want to have time to enjoy your life, or do you want to be stuck with a large mortgage?
 -If you like to take vacations, have medical issues, children in extracurricular activities, etc. you may want to   consider a smaller mortgage. ( You never know what life will throw at you, so you need to have a safety  net..)
-Can you manage with a smaller, less expensive house?
- Do you REALLY need a 3000 square foot home? You do realize that you have to clean it too! (Or pay a  housekeeper to do it - which adds to the monthly bill...)

4-If you are a buyer, you should have a Realtor.  It doesn't cost you anything, because the seller usually pays their commission.  They are there to support you and look after your interest.  They know things you may not have even thought about!

5-Home inspections - Some banks require a termite inspection, but not a home inspection.  They are well worth the costs. You don't want any surprises after you've spent all of your money buying your home!  If you can get a home warranty for a year or two until you get some money saved again, take advantage of that.  I have had clients that had the air conditioner go out within weeks of buying their new home.  The home inspector checked it out and it was fine at the time, but they can't predict the future!


These are some of my most important tips - I'm sure I will think of more after this post.  Feel free to ask questions or share any tips of your own!

 I hope they help you!!!

Friday, September 5, 2014

Banana Nut Popsicles

   
      We are having typical September weather here in Louisiana....Temperatures in the low 90's, heat index of about 100.   Whew- It's time to cool off!

     I wish I could have ice cream everyday, but that's probably not a good idea.  So here's a different option.  OK, maybe not as good as ice cream, but it'll have to do!


                     
 
Banana Nut Popsicles

2 ripe bananas
1/4 cup milk
1/4  cup peanut butter
3 T. honey

*optional - 1/4 cup chocolate chips - chopped (For the days you really need something chocolate!)

      Put all ingredients in food processor or mix by hand.  Pour into popsicle molds. Makes about 6 small.  Freeze a few hours or overnight.

     To get them out of the mold, run hot water on the bottom part of the mold for a few seconds. They will slip right out.



****Kids can help with these too!  



Refreshing and delicious-  I hope you enjoy them!

What's your favorite popsicle flavor?





Friday, August 29, 2014

Gratitude

   



    I know with everyone's busy life, that we usually just focus on the negative things going on in our lives.  For the past few years, I have been trying to live a life of gratitude.  I know it can be hard!  We are bombarded with a lot of negativity.  Just look at the news for example.  Very seldom do you see anything positive.

     How do you change your outlook?  If you focus more on the positive things in life, that's what you get more of!  Every morning or before bed, find at least one thing to be thankful for.  If you can think of more, great...  The more, the better!

 Here are a list of things that will help you get started:

* Family - Always at the top of my list! Even though we are miles apart...

*Friends - Where would we be without the love and support of our BFF's?

*Health - Can you walk, talk, breathe, eat?  I have had several family members with ALS (2 couldn't walk, 1 had trouble breathing)  Another had throat cancer and couldn't talk, and had to eat with a feeding tube. Kind of puts things in perspective, doesn't it???

*Pets - Any kind that makes you smile!

*Sunsets and sunrises

*Flowers

*A cup of coffee

*A good book

*You have a job!

*Running water and a hot bath!


The list goes on and on if you look around.  I'm not saying we can avoid all of the negative things, but you don't have to dwell on it.  There is so much beauty around us...take the time to notice!

Focus more on the positive and see how your life changes!!!





I'd love to hear what you are thankful for!

Tuesday, August 12, 2014

Goodbye to Dieting

     Like many of you, I have been battling my weight for a long time.  Some say it's because of our Cajun Culture.  Yes, many of the things we eat are not very healthy for us!  Of course, I can't eat that way all the time.... I try to counteract the unhealthy foods with healthy ones whenever I can.

     I have tried many, many diets in the past.  At this point, I think I have dieted my way to this weight.  When I think back to how I used to eat and never gain weight, and how I eat now and STILL NOT losing weight, it's very unnerving!

     I came across this video recently and it really hit a nerve.  Since my son and his family moved, I needed something to focus on.  Evidently I chose my diet.  What to eat, what not to eat, how to combine foods, low carb, high fat, daily/weekly weigh ins, etc.... ugh!

     After watching this video, I think it's time for a change.  So, I will give this a try.  What do I have to lose?  Evidently my way isn't working...
   
    Focus my energy outward - eat when I'm hungry, stop when I'm full. (This does not mean pigging out!)  Maybe I will volunteer to help others.  So many possibilities.    Who knows, I may be happier in the long run because I will be able to enjoy life more.  Not just on what I am eating.  Life is really too short to do that!

     Let me know what you think.   I hope this will help you too!



https://www.dianastobo.com/innervoice

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0xSy3STEDfU

Wednesday, June 25, 2014

Jezzebelle's Puppies Have Their New Homes

     The puppies made it to six weeks old and the time came to say goodbye.  We have sent them to their new homes.   Hopefully, they love the new families they have gone to.  I have to admit, it was a difficult process for me.  The whole letting go process is tough...  We watched her give birth and take care of them.  She was a very good mother.  It was so much fun watching the six of them play and learn new things.  We got pretty attached to them all!



     Although we had a wonderful time with the puppies, we have decided not to breed Jezzebelle again.  It really took a lot out of her.  She didn't handle the puppies leaving well either.  She searched our vehicles, the house, the camp and everywhere outside looking for them.  Even though I brought her with me to bring a few of them to their new owners.  It was heartbreaking!

     After many tears (from me), we said goodbye to them.   She's back to her usual self (active as ever).  She is scheduled to be spayed soon.   Life goes back to normal...


Monday, May 19, 2014

Jezzebelle's A Mom

     We recently had 6 new additions to the family!  Our jack russell terrier Jezzebelle had a litter of 6 puppies.  One female and five males!  It has been an adventure watching them grow and seeing their personalities develop!  They are precious....



Jezzebelle has been a really good mama for her first litter.  They are so healthy!  It will be hard to place them in new homes, but keeping all of them is impossible!  I know they will bring their new owners much joy and many smiles....

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Deployment

     The one word no parent wants to hear from their children in the military....deployment!

     I have heard it three times from my Navy son in a 7 year period.   He has been on two ship deployments and one to Afghanistan.
   
    My Army son said it recently for the first time.  He has been on a short, sudden deployment. As he returns home to the states, I can breathe a little easier...
 
    Deployment is a very trying time for all military families.  You waver between being worried sick and being very proud.  Your cell phone NEVER leaves your side, just in case they call you. You stop watching the news, because it's too upsetting.  You send packages so they have little reminders of home.  A song on the radio will make you cry- happened to me in a store of all places.  You pray... a lot!
   
     I never really knew what military families went through.  We didn't have anyone in our family in the military before our sons joined.  It has been an eye-opening experience to say the least!  It makes you appreciate family.  You learn not to take things for granted.  You get a quick lesson on what's really important in life.  It's not how much money you make, how big your house is, your job, or the kind of car you drive...

     We are stronger than we think we are.  I am not talking just about military families.  Everyone has their own battles to fight.  You have to believe that you can handle anything that comes your way, even though you may be knocked down for awhile.  The hard times won't last forever.  The sun will rise and you will smile and be happy again!

 
      I found this poem on a military mom's website before my Navy sons second deployment.  This sums it up.  Yes, it made me cry...

TODAY IS DEPLOYMENT DAY

People say they understand, but really they have no clue,
Of the turmoil and pain, that you must begin to walk through.
That baby boy that you carried cradled right up under your heart,
Has now become a man preparing to depart,
To a land far away, full of uncertainty for each day.

A Mother’s heart has been dealt a blow, a piece of it has been ripped apart,
As she sinks to a place so low, that no one should have to go.
Many have walked this path, many have carried this pain,
A heart beating so fast, tears falling like a cold, cruel rain.

And some where from within, she rises from her wounded heart,
To continue to pray and support her son as he departs.
The road will not be easy, the pain will be severe,
There is a choice to be made . . . a choice to always persevere.

As she now has become a Blue Star mother,
Because of the decision he has made,
Her little boy, her American Patriot,
Now joins the ranks of the brave.

Though her heart is ripped with pain,
Her heart must go on and on,
Beating with everlasting love and pride,
Waiting for her Patriot to come home.



Please pray for all of our military....thank you!